Devinfamily Journal

Words, rants, thoughts, ideas and stuff…

Test of Love…

Posted on | July 10, 2005 | No Comments

Read this today, interesting quiz and interesting on how people are trying to quantify matters of the heart, to explain the illogical and the put things in a place that make sense… not possible nor would I want Love, Honesty, Trust, Intimacy to be defined in a logic statement.

If 7 of these are true, then you are probably in love – hmmmm

1. You know, because you have been told by your significant other, that your deep feelings are returned in kind.
2. The object of your affections makes you feel special and good about yourself.
3. If/when you feel jealous it is always fleeting; you trust your partner not to betray you or hurt your relationship.
4. Nothing makes you feel as serene as when you and your partner are together.
5. When you fight with your partner you usually make up within a few hours and you always agree that nothing is more important than you both being able to express your true feelings (even if they sometimes cause conflict).
6. Your partner never asks you to choose between him/her and your loyalties to your family and friends – if you do choose him/her over them you always have a good reason and it is always YOUR decision, and your decision alone.
7. Neither you or your partner feel the need to test the other’s loyalties or feelings.
8. You are more yourself when with your partner than you are with anybody else.
9. If sex is part of your relationship it is by mutual desire and agreement without the slightest hint of commitment testing or persuasion.

Good ideas strive for in general with regards to a relationship, buy i am reluctant to agree that this means love…

I subscribe to this idea:

“Love: A term which has no meaning if defined.”

~ John Ralston Saul, The Doubter’s Companion

I will go in this way…

Posted on | July 8, 2005 | No Comments

Come see
I swear by now I

Crush Me…

Posted on | July 7, 2005 | No Comments

Crazy, how it, feels tonight.
Crazy, how you, make it all alright love.
You crush me, with the, things you do,
I do, for you, anything too oh.
Sitting, smoking, feeling high.
And in this, moment, ah, it feels so right.

Lovely lady, I am at your feet, oh, God I want you so badly.
And I wonder this could tomorrow be so wondrous as you there sleeping.

Let

Karmic Reward

Posted on | July 5, 2005 | No Comments

Sometimes, when you live life with no expectations, less self desire and no self directed or ill will intentions, amazing things can come your way. Live life in the best possible way, be the best person, the best human you can be and you can be rewarded, you will be rewarded.

Peace of mind, peace of heart and true intimacy will bestow a person when they live in a way that creates the life they want…

Release…

Posted on | June 23, 2005 | No Comments

Even though you may want to move forward in your life, you may have one
foot on the brakes.

In order to be free, we must learn how to let go.

Release the hurt.
Release the fear.
Refuse to entertain your old pain.

The energy it takes to hang onto the past is holding you back from a new
life.

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